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Reimagining Human Nature through the Bonobo

    In contrast, bonobos function within a very different societal nature. De Waal refers to the bonobo’s approach to conflict as “make love not war” (de Waal, Peacemaking p.180). Among bonobos, sex and sexual contact form a frequent part of their everyday interactions, playing the main role in maintaining positive relationships between all members of the community. For bonobos, after an instance of aggression, the rate of embracing, touching and sexual contact increased between the two fighting parties. One example illustrates two males had ten times more intensive contact than usual after a conflict (de Waal, Peacemaking p.215). Another example shows a female offering sex as reconciliation minutes after a fight with a male (de Waal, Peacemaking p.219). Sexual contact as a mechanism for peace, as well as more ready peacemaking, extends to preemptive aversion of conflict. In one instance, after a competitive game between two females became tense, one female offered the other sexual contact as a means to diffuse tension (de Waal, Peacemaking p.219). De Waal points out that unlike chimpanzees, where the subordinate party needs to admit defeat for peacemaking to occur, the dominant bonobo typically initiates peacemaking, suggesting that peacemaking amongst bonobos is less about reinforcing hierarchies and more about reinforcing social bonds.

    Primatologists such as de Waal and Stanford have been criticised for the limited amount of bonobo data available and the challenges of extrapolating data from bonobos in captivity. However, they do bring attention to a very distinct alternative ancestral model for humans. While the connection between human behavior and the behaviour of our closest kin is disputable, considering the seemingly more peaceful bonobo in discussions about human violence is critical. While we must be careful not to anthropomorphise our primate ancestors, the bonobo model reminds us that perhaps violence and war are not obvious and inevitable aspects of human nature.

    What do you think?

    • How important are ancestral models and primate relatives in understanding human behaviour?
    • How is popular discourse on human proclivity to warfare affected by discoveries in primate behaviour?
    • Is empathy something that is innate or cultivated?
    • Hypothetically, if bonobos were proven to be definitively closer primate relative, to what extent do you think discourse around human violence would change?

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    References

    • Flack, Jessica C. and de Waal, Frans B.M. “Any animal whatever. Darwinian building blocks of morality in monkeys and apes.” Journal of Consciousness Studies, 7, No. 1–2, 2000, pp. 1–29.
    • de Waal, Frans. Peacemaking among Primates. Harvard University Press, 1989. JSTOR, https://doi.org/10.2307/j.ctvjz820k.
    • De Waal, Frans. Our Inner Ape: The Best and Worst of Human Nature. London: Granta Books, 2005.

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